First off, programs are popular but not a necessity. Don't feel like you have got to have them. They are probably the most popular thing to be left behind at the end of the night. So if you don't have the time, or the space in the budget, then no worries.
If you do have the time and the budget, they can be a nice touch. Here are the things that I suggest having in your program:
1. Welcome: To all of the guests whether they traveled 5 miles or 5000 miles, it's nice for them to feel welcomed.
2. Introductions: Of the bridal party, the parents and grandparents. It is usually best to put this in processional order so that guests can play a little game of Who's Who?
3.Ceremony Order: Not completely necessary, but sometimes when it is an interfaith marriage it can be a nice touch.
4. Readings: It's nice to give people something to read along with. If you have space, Great! If not, it won't kill anyone to have to listen.
5. Explanation of Traditions: Again important if you're marrying someone of a different background, it will help both families understand what's going on and why it's important to the both of you.
6. Thank You: It's a good time to put your thank you to your parents, family and friends in writing. **This is not in lieu of a traditional thank you after the wedding**
7. Directions: You can stick a piece of card stock in the back with directions to the reception, or you can simply write them into the last page of the program. Either way, it's nice to ensure guests won't get lost!
Like I said though, they're not mandatory, but a nice touch. And these aren't rules you have to follow, you can include anything you'd like!
